we cannot think that everything will go smoothly. it just doesn't work that way.
we sometimes expect it but sometimes we don't.
that is what we call challenges. unavoidable.
whether it comes from circumstances, others or even ourselves. we just have to cope.
it is too subjective. vast.
at times it will be subtle but at certain times it will be hard.
it is going to be difficult.
at times when we feel the whole world is against us. contradicting with whatever we do.
when all feels sad and somber.
it is essential that we do not crumble. not to give in. to stay on both our feet.
this is when we are tested.
the same as being positive.
will definitely help us thrive. forward.
where do we find this optimism?
often we can find it in ourselves.
because what's important is always ourselves when we want to overcome anything.
if not, then it will all be useless. no amount of help will get us through.
then there's family members. teachers. mentors. friends. and partner.
we can always rely on those who are willing to help. to guide. to walk us through.
help will come for those who ask for it.
you don't need to go through everything alone.
asking help is not a sign of weakness. but strength.
strength is shown when you admit your weakness.
not to succumb. but to acknowledge. to understand.
we are strong in very different ways.
we can be surprised with human's immeasurable strength.
i find it easy when we consult our problems to somebody. anybody.
as long as that person is trustworthy.
sometimes what we need is support.
that support will create that optimism that we need.
"happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if only one remembers to turn on the light"